Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day

I know sometimes we feel over looked and under appreciated because our counterparts actually go through the pain, labor, and child birth, but sidekicks need Love too. We coached them, ran to the store at weird hours of the night/morning, and rubbed their feet (even when we hate feet). We are the support, the reasoning, and the deep voices to break up the tantrums….We are present, willing, and able to put our lives on the lines. We are fathers; and today we don’t pat ourselves on the back for being fathers because it’s our pleasure. We pat ourselves on the back for never losing sight of what’s important, watching our children grow, and being apart of every inch of that growth. Happy Father’s Day to all Father’s that show up daily….



Think about This….

American guns were purchased, shots rained out, people died, one crazy man changed millions of lives. He happened to be a radical, linked to a faith that promotes peace, and many people see a sick man as a terrorist. Other shooters were linked to other faiths and were saw  for what they were, sick. Families   have lost heartbeats and our hearts are filled with hate. Violence is an evil in this world but if we didn’t feel the need to protect ourselves from other Americans, guns wouldn’t be necessary. Remember these guns were legally purchased, also remember the people in Chicago are living in fear, and need the same call for action. #SickPeopleWithGunsRaiseBodyCounts


Happy Memorial Day

I am an American; a proud Nyer, but I am a human first. Today, we honor all the people that fought for our liberties, as well as those that died for endless greed. Any war that is fought has casualties so no one is ultimately a winner. We should strive for peace and that should never end in blood. But, not being an ignorant man, I understand war may be needed to gain peace. Being a man of faith, I hope one day that isn’t our truth and we can compromise without stopping someone’s heart to have peace. With all that being said, we are present in today and honor the bravery it takes to forfeit life so others can live….Thank you

Open Your Mouth….

How is someone responsible for something you think they should know when you never told them? Communicate exactly what you want….Nobody should be expected to read between the lines, when you can be straight. Stop playing victim….You can’t justify staying, yet still complain about not leaving. You can’t expect someone to leave a person they can get over on. Be vulnerable….Put your heart on the line and test how strong your Love truly is. Challenge your relationship with honesty regularly. Open your mouth….Stop being a coward, hiding behind your right to conceal; you are in a relationship, nothing is yours anymore, it belongs to both of y’all!!!!

Happy Mother’s Day

What can we say about our mothers? The femininity patrolling our homes with the grace of a hug, and the sturnness of lessons. They provide us with the foundation that can only be found in a home. They are the wives their sons should want and the women their daughters should want to be. They are teaching us the fathers and mothers we should want to be. Mothers can be our everything because they can do anything. We celebrate Mother’s day to remind ourselves how blessed we are to have y’all….thanks for being!!!!
Love,Happy Mother’s Day

What it Means to Be a Couple….

A couple is two, but as one they become a unit. They take the risk of merging two power with the hope it would be electric. The sparks fly and they must be controlled enough to light up a home, which would house a family, and invite friends. A couple will actually bring more than two together because the multiplication will add up, to something that can only be subtracted if they allow division to keep them from being equals….

Women Don’t Amaze Me….

I am not amazed by what a woman can do, I am amazed about what they can’t do. I am amazed that people doubt someone that can hold a child for nine months and birth them through pain that will kill the average man.
I have always understood that rules have no expectations, we just never accepted the rules! I understand women and men are different, but I choose to see how we are similar by talking about our differences. I am called “rude”, “disrespectful”, and “insensitive”  because I am never amazed by what a woman can do, but by what they can’t do, because I see us as equals, together. And, I would be damn if I would be amazed by my capabilities, so I say what I want and I am proven wrong daily because I am right, women can take it!!!!