When surrounded by doubt, it weakens what’s certain. When you’re always being questioned by people that don’t have the answer, your mind dwindles. Insecurity won’t find security in the secure; they can only create instability where stability was once stable. Okay, I get it, you want to give back, but that takes challenging them to have pride in receiving. There is helping, then there’s enabling….Help a dreamer to transform that dream into reality, but don’t allow a nightmare to effect your dreams. The best way to lift someone is from the top; don’t break your back lifting them from the bottom. One position, you can let go of the dead weight; but the other, the weight falls on you. Observe, listen, then act; don’t jump in head first, because your heart will fall in the process. Hold hands with tight grips; give tight hugs to bodies with warm holds; certify certainty and secure the secure. Create a club of members that remember growth is a daily Faith, which takes maintaining what already has grown!!!!