Realationship
The failure of a relationship varies in reasons, but ultimately it stems from one/two believing it wouldn’t be in their benefit to continue. We can blame each other but it boils down to chemistry. Mix two substances that don’t belong together and it will blow up. We are groomed to put our best foot forward and once in the door show that the other foot has a defect. That advice does get us in the door but it doesn’t keep us there; hence the divorce rate being so high. Society puts a premium on instant gratification e.g. sex, money, and self-promotion, but the gratification will truly come from unity; taking the time to build a connection that will weather the storms, strengthen when tested, and most importantly be an example to link others. Let’s stop using our first date to be liked, and start using them to fall in-love. Allow the person across from you to know who they’re investing in “past”, “present”, and “future”. Let them know where you come from, who you are, and where you wish to be. Use God’s gift of choice to build a relationship that is based on two people merging to share the same lane, going to the same destination!!!!
Yes, and stop allowing our “representatives” to show up and damage any and sometimes ALL possibilities….loved the post!
Put yourself out their and challenge people to love you for strength and weakness….past and present. Thanks for stopping by my blog
Oh I’ve definitely found someone that does
no problem and thank you for stopping by as well 
You’re welcome and hold on to that special someone!!!!
Simply amazing post..
Thanks….
Hi Ab glad to see you’re still posting, since you’re in the NYC area!!
I am fine….plus my words are my heart beat, they will continue until I am decease!!!! A hurricane can’t prevent my Love!!!! Thanks for noticing!!!!
Just talked to a good friend on the way to lunch today going through the issue of continuing or letting go.
It depends on the issues…. if letting go will enhance your emotional and mental health let go and don’t look back but if stay will give you a lifetime of happiness and the good triples the bad then stay!!!!
AMAZING AGAIN… reading this.. sometimes i have the feeling.. im getting no where… i have tried my best, but it seems my best was not enough and then i start asking myself.. i get doubts.. but now i know.. You can only have a true relationship when both chemistry is right… not money… can buy a good relationship…
I am glad I can encourage you to re-examining your worth. “Money may build the house but it doesn’t give a home its comfort”!!!! Single is better than being unhappy but happy in love is the great accomplishment. “Don’t settle for less than a strong heart beat that match your rhythm”!!!!
Thanks alot…
You’re welcome!!!!