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April 23, 2012

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“I Need” “I Want”

by AmazinglyBrash

“I need” and “I want” are intertwined in love. I need a woman that keeps my passion in check just enough to keep me passionate. I want a woman that can remember how my mouth tasted during our first kiss. I need a woman that reminds me why I need to remain who she fell in love with for the remainder of our lives. I want a woman that cooks, cleans, and dreams; that doesn’t hide in the kitchen, allows me to help with the dirt, and isn’t afraid to wake up and live. I need a woman that allows me into her soul long enough to write my name in script just to solidify I signed a contract to always be in contact with every want and need for the rest of our existence!!!!

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  1. May 26 2012

    People shouldn’t want to be needed….because in their absence a love one would be lost. People should want to be wanted because when a person wants you they don’t have to stay but they chose to, which is the most flattering compliment someone can pay you.

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  2. Apr 23 2012

    At least your wants & needs compliment each other. It seems as though your expectations don’t create a disparity in your life or romance. I hope you’ll find everything you’re looking for. Great post man.

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    • Apr 23 2012

      Glad to see a fellow romantic, brother…. We can’t have contradictions in our quest to compliment; give and take, we have to find someone that is taking what we are giving, but giving back what we only can take. Love is tricky, but the trick is to know what you need before you go after what you want. Everything has to work in sync for the common goal to be accomplished!!!!

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      • Apr 23 2012

        Another piece of awesome advice…….”the trick is to know what you NEED before you go after what you WANT”……I’ll be printing that out as well (and yes, your name will appear in BOLD underneath…LOL)

      • Apr 23 2012

        hahahaha….thanks girl!!!!

  3. iamlenise
    Apr 23 2012

    Wooww..very cute..Big Smiles..I like this alot :)

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    • Apr 23 2012

      Very cute!!!! Thank you, I knew I look good in my writing!!!!

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      • iamlenise
        Apr 23 2012

        haha ;) :-D

  4. Apr 23 2012

    Profound post! KUDOS! Would be great to see a “part 2″ to this one…….with an entire list of relationship wants and needs. It’s always interesting to read a male’s perspective. Especially one who “gets it”.

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    • Apr 23 2012

      Maybe there is more in store…. because wants are infinite, but needs are used infinitely!!!! The problem with relationships is the people that provide what we need aren’t who we tend to want, and the people that give us what we want are people we tend to think we need. Here’s the real profound point…. the people that we should be with are the people that want us because they know for sure they can provide every need!!!! Following me????

      I wish we all could be cut in half and not be whole until we find our match!!!! AB (AmazinglyBrash)

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      • Apr 23 2012

        Wow! Just when I thought I might have it almost figured out, you blow me away with more incredible statements like the ones above.
        “The people that we should be with are the people that want us because they know for sure they can provide our every need”………….
        I’m going to type that into a Word document in big bold typeface and print it out….and then hang it where I can see it daily. Hopefully it’ll help me with making decisions about future possible relationships. Thank you my friend.

    • Apr 23 2012

      You’re welcome, glad I can be of service. Just make sure it says AmazinglyBrash in bold letters. You will find “HIM” if you’re clear on what you want and “no settling for less”!!!!

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      • May 26 2012

        I just re-read your last comment on here……
        Didn’t you mean to say “You will find him if you’re clear on what you “NEED”? LOL Just checkin’ ;)

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